Attachment
Isn't Just for Early Childhood
Shirley K. Trout, M.Ed
The role of attachment in early
childhood has been well-documented as critical to healthy social and emotional
adjustment to the child's emerging world, as well as to the child's cognitive
development. "Empathy, caring, sharing, inhibition or aggression, capacity
to love and a host of other characteristics of a healthy, happy and productive
person are related to the core attachment capabilities which are formed in
infancy and early childhood," according to Bruce Perry, M.D., Ph.D., from
the Department of Psychiatry and Behavioral Sciences, Houston, Texas.
Yet how many parents and early
childhood caregivers realize the role they are playing in reducing alcohol,
tobacco and other drug (ATOD) use, deviance and early sexual activity once these
children reach early adolescence (10 to 15)?
Indeed, the most important
parenting strategy that research shows helps to delay of onset of ATOD use and
other high-risk behaviors by early adolescents is that same, profoundly
important human capability: Attachment. Healthy adolescent development involves
not only the ability to be a successful individual, but also the ability to
maintain healthy and satisfying attachments with others (Steinberg, 1996).
Parent-child attachment has been found to be the strongest inhibitor of
delinquency among various demographic and family factors (Gove &
Crutchfield, 1982). These statements are among the many that verify the
importance of attachment capabilities in the research report prepared by the
Nebraska Council to Prevent Alcohol and Drug Abuse. The research has led to the
development of a Parent Education program titled, When It Comes From You.
One interesting finding from
early adolescent development and resiliency research is that, during early
adolescence in particular, the healthy attachment often involves an adult other
than the parent. Yet, consistently, it is the ability of a child to allow that
healthy attachment which results in the child's ability to form lifesaving
relationships.
As child care providers and early
childhood educators continue their work with young children, they should
recognize what a powerful role they are playing when they encourage every child
to bond successfully with both the child's primary caregiver, as well as the
other significant adults who influence that child's life. In helping that child
establish healthy attachments for his or her immediate development, caregivers
and educators are also making a huge contribution toward the successful
prevention of high-risk behaviors later in that child's life.
[Sources: Perry, Bruce (1998). Childhood trauma and neurophysiological development. Paper presented at the 17th Annual Conference of the National CASA Association, Houston, TX., May 30 - June 2, 1998. Gove, W.R., and Crutchfield, R.D. (1982). The family and juvenile delinquency. Sociological Quarterly, 23, 301-319. Steinberg, L.D. (1996). Adolescence, 4th Ed. McGraw-Hill.]